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So there you are, feel lonely, abandoned, unattractive, ugly and fat. Not that any of them, but that's what you feel. Pity self can cause unpleasant emotions in the heart. I would have been interesting. Want Smart. You like a partner. Would you be loved. Would you like someone. I like to go with a bona fide boyfriend / life partner or a timeline, go anywhere and feel really special and live like this forever.
But before going on the steps to get one that must ask, "Why I want a partner?" Breathe deeply and let the responses come to mind. Judge not, either. Usually, the first thing that comes to mind is your truth.
Need protection? Need company? Need sex? Need someone to share household chores? You need friendship? Do you need a shoulder to cry on? Need a secretary? Need a chef? Need a mechanic? Need another parent for your children? Need security? Need money?
Depending on their Early responses will realize you may not need a partner. If you think that most of these needs will be met by the prince or princess charming couples to note that this is not the case. Expectations not being met and will be stuck in a relationship that is far from perfect. So that, after determining why you needs a life partner, do the following:
Imagine you're opposite a giant salad bar. You see there are many more things you can eat, and many of them do not like him anyway.
Exploration bar: control by the washer. What to throw away? What do you think, well … Maybe later? What would you say: Yes! This will go on my plate. Fill your plate.
Now you see the dessert bar: is even better! However, choose carefully because, although you may love certain types of dessert, you can disagree with you and that you are ill. Some are too pretty, but lacks flavor, and some are too rich and you'll regret eating later, and some are just. Remember your coffee or tea.
So now you're ready to make your choice of a partner. As the Defense Department for bar salad and dessert
1. Make a list of things you can not tolerate another human being, especially one with whom you spend the rest of his life.
2. Make a list of things you can bear, but only if absolutely necessary.
3. Make a list of things that are very pleasant and enjoyable to have.
4. Make a list of things that you should have.
Of course, these things can be attributes, values, habits, personality traits, physical characteristics, features, capabilities, history, members of the family, health, wealth, etc.
When you've finished your list, note your statement: "I am in the process met my perfect match is … "and you write everything you really want to be in your future partner, but leaving space for the kind of surprises.
Do not forget lists containing the negative things, but this has served to focus on what is important to you. Burn. Focusing only on what you want. Too, remember to save all your needs. Whatever. After all, you're a track and need someone to fill any empty space in your life.
Dr. Maria Moratto, a personal development and self-growth author and speaker invites you to visit Prescription For Bliss at http://rx4bliss.com Join Harmony, a personal development newsletter and receive a free and inspiring e-book and a set of gratitude e-cards. Contact Dr. Maria to schedule a talk for your events and TV, Radio, and media programs. You may reprint this article in its entirety as long as you add this resource box. © Dr. Maria Moratto 2007
